:(

[MustangSarahGT]

So after about a month of Brian tellin me that he loves me so much and he wants me back more than anything he comes outta the blue and tells me he doesnt feel the same this is of course after he snuggles and hooks up with me:wtf2:

why do guys lie like that??? why do they play with u and break ure heart I dont understand how he could do this to me

why do guys tell u how much they love u then the next day the tell u that they dont feel the same for u

I want to fuckin die

[BigYella]

well sarah, i am sure other people have told you this before and i will say it too.........stay away from brian. If you show him you will die for him(which you are showing right now) then he will obviously lose interest and mess around. I know the good brian over here said it and i am sure jay does and jihad man will too.....stay the fuck away from brian. Its just not worth the trouble from him dude just let it go.

[Mr Joshua]

yup, most definatly stay away from brian, people like that arn't worth the time or effort... try not to let it get ya down.. not all guys are like that... good luck and try to cheer up...
~J

[MustangSarahGT]

Originally posted by BigYella
well sarah, i am sure other people have told you this before and i will say it too.........stay away from brian. If you show him you will die for him(which you are showing right now) then he will obviously lose interest and mess around. I know the good brian over here said it and i am sure jay does and jihad man will too.....stay the fuck away from brian. Its just not worth the trouble from him dude just let it go.

[ZIPPY]

hey sarah.... never met u but from what i hear..u are a pretty good looking girl..it shouldnt be a problem to go out and meet some one nice who will respect u...i know u prolli have a lot of baggage with brian..physical and emotional or whatever..but from the sounds of it... he seems like a real asshole....any guy who would spit on u doesnt deserve to be with a girl like u... if he would do it once...whether out of anger or not...just shows he has no respect for u... u prolli just need some time to urself to think about it and ull realize that yourself.... hmmm this prolli wasnt much help but ill click submit anyway :eh:

[MustangSarahGT]

no thanks guys it does help the last thing I want right now is to be along and think about everything

[327 vortec]

sorry to hear that you are down. Mayby what you need is to come down to worcester and hang out with some cool guys who will treat you good.Who nows maby you might meet someone interresting.:thumbsup:

[Blackwidow]

Originally posted by MustangSarahGT
So after about a month of Brian tellin me that he loves me so much and he wants me back more than anything he comes outta the blue and tells me he doesnt feel the same this is of course after he snuggles and hooks up with me:wtf2:

why do guys lie like that??? why do they play with u and break ure heart I dont understand how he could do this to me

why do guys tell u how much they love u then the next day the tell u that they dont feel the same for u

I want to fuckin die

trust me .. you definitely dont feel like dying .. you're not experiencing THAT much .. what you're going through is cake to what im going through right now .. so smile and walk away from it .. its called life .. experience it .. meet new people .. get out .. do shit you've always wanted to do with people you never thought you'd be around ..

[WETDRM]

sarah.....jay is having another party soon,please come and meet everyone.....PLEASE....

[H3llphyre]

Sarah, call me if you need to. You know the number. If you want me to drive out there to chill with you, lemme know. You know that I am there for you, as well as quite a few others. As Don said, I am having another party at my place dec 6th I think. You are more then welcome to come to it and I have a few couches you can crash on too. My door is always open (that goes for any of you fuckers too).

[F-Bobby]

yeah i would like the meet the famous Sarah. and hopefully watchin Jay be Jay while drunk will be enough to take your mind off anything that may be bothering ya.

[tnthub]

I don't know anyone involved so I will risk pissing off the Pope and offer my .02...

Sounds like you and the gentlemen were a "former item" and after thetypical male begging you let him back and as soon as he got what he wanted you are left high and dry (so to speak).

If I am wrong I apologize, but this is what your post sounds like to me.

Anyway, not all guys are like this. Also, I assume the two of you split for a reason so you shouldn't be suprised at the outcome. And, you need to be happy with yourself before you can be happy with someone else. Happiness is an inside job.

Focus on being grateful that you still have feelings to be hurt, that he is the one missing out, and that you now have a world of opportunities to find someone who suits you better. This isn't about someone who no longer likes you, it is about an opportunity for you do now find the fellow of your dreams and have a good time while doing it. Do not allow the "ex" to have the power to make you have a bad day.

My advice s simple... Manicure, shopping, and chocolate. Or whatever stuff you are into. Treat yourself right and you will be just fine. Life is a process, not an event, and you are in the drivers seat.

[ScoobyGT]

I couldn't agree more. While I've never met you Sarah, I've dated a guy like that and it took me 3 or 4 tries with him to realize that he didn't respect me or treat me like I deserved. I know it sucks now, but your best bet is to cut off all communication with him for now. The more he sees how much it hurts you, the more power he'll think he has and the more he'll keep doing it(been through that, all set thanks). PM for my number and we'll talk or just sit if you want :) Some guys are just power freaks and he sounds like one of them. There are some really nice guys out there, so don't get caught up on this one :)

[KELLEE]

Originally posted by MustangSarahGT
no thanks guys it does help the last thing I want right now is to be along and think about everything

You should know better then that! Dont ever let a guy tag the ass without a label. Unless all you were looking for was a fun fuck. Why are you the one sweaten him? Make him sweat you. Agnore him for awhile and make sure the next time he sees you, you look HOOOTTTTTTT! And next time he wants a friendly fuck either say "No" or make yourself cum before him and then get up and leave:thumbsup: Some great advise learn the difference between a FUCK and Making Love it makes it easier to get up and walk out

[Feral]

This kid is dogshit. You love him ... big deal ... you can love another. He just wanted a fuck and you were convenient so he said what needed to be said to get sex out of you and then he left you. Don't ever believe anything he says again and go find yourself a better man (or woman if you do that kinda thing).

[Igetlaidalot]

yeah ferals right, as is everyone else here..

People like that are not going to change, as unfortunate as it is, all i can say is try to move on as much as you can, and hopefully in the future you will recognize people like him and try to stay away from them


but keep your head up, its obvious just from this site that you have a lot of people who care about you, take your time, but when youre ready, just know that there are a lot of guys who are much better than him, and you deserve to be treated a lot better than he treated you, someone out there will give you that.

[Mr Joshua]

still, it's not easy to just forget someone if you truely are in love with them, even if your love isn't returned... it's difficult, and no amount of one night stands or shopping spree's will cover it up..
time and realization of what he did and how much he actually doesn't care anything about you and your feelings will cure a pain like that... you can cover it up... but it'll still be there in some form or another.. just make sure not to alienate your friends... more often than not, people outside the relationship will see whats actually going on, and give you correct information... even if your not inclined to belive it.. just have faith in your good friends... and things will get better :)
~J

[Jcb890]

i dunno why that guy is such a fuckin douchebag, but its guys like that giving other guys bad names, i know i dont do that shit and i wud b willing 2 bet there's a lot more good guys out there than what ppl see and shit. but yeah, that dude seems like a douchebag and just say fuck it and move on, tell him 2 lick a giant cock, im sure he'll understand lol.

[Jcb890]

basically read what Feral wrote cuz thats as true and as straight up of an answer ur gonna get from ne1 whether uve known them for all ur life or just post on a board w/ them.

[H3llphyre]

yeah, pretty much I think we are all speaking the same language.

Sarah, come out, chill with us if you need a tight crew to chill with to get your mind off him. You know damn well I am there for you and so would a lot of the other guys once they get to know you. Plus, if anyone that chills even thought about screwing you over, I would pound them straight into the ground. As much as it appears that I leghump sarah, she is a decent friend. Its all in good fun and I don't let my friends be fucked with. I don't know Bri enough to really do one thing or another, so I won't bother saying shit.

[Grey Poupon]

Originally posted by SpeedyCeli
I couldn't agree more. While I've never met you Sarah, I've dated a guy like that and it took me 3 or 4 tries with him to realize that he didn't respect me or treat me like I deserved.

You're not a dude?! wtf!?

Sarah, all you need is a rabbit dildo, that'll replace brian litterally and figuratively.

[Blackwidow]

Originally posted by Grey Poupon
You're not a dude?! wtf!?

Sarah, all you need is a rabbit dildo, that'll replace brian litterally and figuratively.


just have her borrow your girlfriend's?? Hasn't it replaced you literally and figuratively? Well, she has gotten off a lot more, is there a direct correlation between her orgasms and you not being there, or is that pretty far fetched?

[H3llphyre]

let the battle commence.

[ScoobyGT]

Originally posted by Grey Poupon
You're not a dude?! wtf!?

Sarah, all you need is a rabbit dildo, that'll replace brian litterally and figuratively.

Nope,not a dude :)

[MustangSarahGT]

Originally posted by SpeedyCeli
Nope,not a dude :)


hahahaahahah we def. need to chill I need more girlfriends

as in girls as friends not girlfriends u nasty leghumpers u:worship2:

[540Malibu]

:mad:

[Grey Poupon]

Originally posted by Lil RedCorvette
just have her borrow your girlfriend's?? Hasn't it replaced you literally and figuratively? Well, she has gotten off a lot more, is there a direct correlation between her orgasms and you not being there, or is that pretty far fetched?

What do you expect from a $5 Tijuana whore? It's better then the philipino-man boys you aquire with your felch-o-pheliac third gen. What's that thing attract? The blind and IgetLaidAlot?

You couldn't get a blowjob from a petting zoo if you had peanut butter smeared on your little soldier.

So in answer to your question: yes, your mom does like it in the ass.

-N

[Grey Poupon]

Originally posted by SpeedyCeli
Nope,not a dude :)

The name threw me...this place has all sorts of gender issues (see Ken).

-N

[RacerXTT]

Sorry to hear about this, last thing u should be is alone hang with some friends and i don't think anyone here would get upset by u aiming them or watever.

[2manytickets]

Ive been in a few relationships like that with women. I know we never met but and I dont post much but I have read about every thread on the board (basically cause my moms in the hospital and I cant sleep) and its not worth feeling like shit over. You may love the person, want to be with them or whatever, but if they dont have the same feelings then walk away. too many people try to hold onto things that arent worth it, Ive seen friends get all excited when a guy who they like calls and start thinking he cares when all he wants is sex, its a neverending cycle and its one you need to break. No relationship is perfect but it seems like you two break up alot, and thats b.s. Granted make up sex is cool and all after a break up or fight but it isnt worth the mental or physical heartache. I was in a relationship with a girl for 2 years after being best friends for 6 years, I was in love, bought her a car, was ready to buy a house with her and everything, but I could tell the way she felt was changing and I kept ignoring it and ended up hurt, and in debt, so walk away and find someone who actually cares the right way.

[Igetlaidalot]

Originally posted by Grey Poupon
What do you expect from a $5 Tijuana whore? It's better then the philipino-man boys you aquire with your felch-o-pheliac third gen. What's that thing attract? The blind and IgetLaidAlot?

You couldn't get a blowjob from a petting zoo if you had peanut butter smeared on your little soldier.

So in answer to your question: yes, your mom does like it in the ass.

-N

dont go bringin me into this shit, what the fucks your problem. i didnt say shit to you, and you dont know me. fuck off troll...



POOP ON WhAT NOW BITCH!

[germantoy]

umm no offense but did you not see this fucken coming, this kid showed his true colors on the other board. You've had the fucken blinders on for a while. Im going to give it to you Violent Dr. Phil Style. GROW THE FUCK UP LIFES TOUGH GET A HELMET. Seriously now. Ttheres a point were you walk the fuck away. drama sucks huge fucken dick end it.

[H3llphyre]

Originally posted by germantoy
umm no offense but did you not see this fucken coming, this kid showed his true colors on the other board. You've had the fucken blinders on for a while. Im going to give it to you Violent Dr. Phil Style. GROW THE FUCK UP LIFES TOUGH GET A HELMET. Seriously now. Ttheres a point were you walk the fuck away. drama sucks huge fucken dick end it.

And, although brutal, it is quite evident you are more correct then most people will admit.

[Igetlaidalot]

true...

[MustangSarahGT]

Im sorry Im upset and me being upset offened like half this board... I needed to talk to someone about it and everyone was out I was sittin around crying I didnt now what to do.... Im sorry he was an internet tough guy but he treated me like I was unreplaceable and I love him with all my heart

you can call me dumb and what not I dont care I really dont because my love for him is all that matters none of u were there to see how awesome we were no one but we know


all I wanted was someone to say sorry to here that not a lets bitch Sarah out cuz she hurts enough already as it is

I think Jays the only one that truely understands how I feel about Brian

and if for some odd reason Brian finds this thread

I LOVE YOU BRIAN CHARLES LINDBERG with all my heart:( :( :( :(

[Igetlaidalot]

hey sarah, noone here blames you, nicks very blunt, but he isnt trying to say that youre a bitch or that its your fault. i think were all sorry to see what youre going through, and we understand that you can be blinded by love, but were also trying to say that we think you deserve to be treated better than you have been by him. and of course we dont know how good the two of you could be, but we have seen how bad it could be, and what youve told us in inexcusable and shows that he doesnt truly care about you, and that he in no way deserves you.

[Feral]

Originally posted by MustangSarahGT
Im sorry Im upset and me being upset offened like half this board... I needed to talk to someone about it and everyone was out I was sittin around crying I didnt now what to do.... Im sorry he was an internet tough guy but he treated me like I was unreplaceable and I love him with all my heart

you can call me dumb and what not I dont care I really dont because my love for him is all that matters none of u were there to see how awesome we were no one but we know


all I wanted was someone to say sorry to here that not a lets bitch Sarah out cuz she hurts enough already as it is

I think Jays the only one that truely understands how I feel about Brian

and if for some odd reason Brian finds this thread

I LOVE YOU BRIAN CHARLES LINDBERG with all my heart:( :( :( :(

I'm sorry that you feel we were bitching you out because I don't think anyone meant you any ill will. We were all trying to help, giving you the best advice we had. You are right, we have nothing to go on other than what you have told us and what we saw of him. Anyhow good luck, still it sounds like he is dicking you around ... literally.

[Jcb890]

some ppl r prbly gettin pissed and givin u their mind straight up because what ur doin seems so dumb, although every1 realizes why ur doin it.

just try and move on. ull love again. i broke up w/ my first love about 6 months ago, was horrible at 1st, but u start to not give a shit and have a good time. so just try and move on. if it helps to talk 2 ppl about it, then talk to ur friends or post/IM ppl on here, ill try and help if u like since i pretty much know what ur goin thru, but im sure like 90% of the board has gone thru this already. so dont worry bout it, ull b fine.

[Grey Poupon]

I've already offered to impregnate her, but she declined. Oh well. I guess my man-seed will remain unfertilized for the immediate future.

Seriously Sarah, what do you expect from a guy who drives a DSM? He's probablly a closet ESS guy anyway.

[Igetlaidalot]

Originally posted by Grey Poupon
I've already offered to impregnate her, but she declined. Oh well. I guess my man-seed will remain unfertilized for the immediate future.

Seriously Sarah, what do you expect from a guy who drives a DSM? He's probablly a closet ESS guy anyway.


hahaha



watch out, he might have the ESS, you might want to get tested

[germantoy]

im not bitching at you young jedi, its just so painstakingly fucken clear to alot of us that alot of what you "love" was a front. shit i can tell a girl at a bar everything she wanted to hear and bring her home put it in her butt and call it a night.

Love is fucked up it gives you a blind perspective of reality, you become comfortable in your current situation and thus try and deal with problems (even if they are large like abusive relationships be it mental or physical). That shit is what ultimately fucks up all the good people. Yourdegree of comfort is offset by your overall unhappiness so you stay with this person blinded by love and these feelings that are harder to get over than a mainline crack habit.

And if you dont listen to me fuck you im the only doctor on this board :):thumbsup:

[H3llphyre]

Originally posted by germantoy
im not bitching at you young jedi, its just so painstakingly fucken clear to alot of us that alot of what you "love" was a front. shit i can tell a girl at a bar everything she wanted to hear and bring her home put it in her butt and call it a night.

Love is fucked up it gives you a blind perspective of reality, you become comfortable in your current situation and thus try and deal with problems (even if they are large like abusive relationships be it mental or physical). That shit is what ultimately fucks up all the good people. Yourdegree of comfort is offset by your overall unhappiness so you stay with this person blinded by love and these feelings that are harder to get over than a mainline crack habit.

And if you dont listen to me fuck you im the only doctor on this board :):thumbsup:

again, in his brutally honest way, Nick explains the entire thing to a T.

[BigYella]

sarah.........i really dont know what to say. i just hope you come to your senses some day and realize that there are other guys out there who will give you the respect you deserve. None of us here look like we are helping you but just reminding you of him. I dont have to meet him to know he is an asshole. he asks you for your pic and then gets pissed about it, how fucked up is that?
goodluck with your relationships and hope you realize that this guy is a douche bag.

[F-Bobby]

See it's obvious you have a lto of peoepl on here who care about ya more then he did. Now while im sure some of them (like me) dont personally know you and cant help you specifically with your situation, im sure everyone (cept me in this case) has been through something liek this and they can tell what what they did, so listen to them, it cant hurt.

[540Malibu]

never try to justify someone elses actions. from what you have said, the kids an asshole plain and simple. and regardless of what you think, from what you have sadi he doesnt love you, you two are not in love. Love is shared, i see no sharing (besides him sharign some spit) so he is an asshole, if you want to be with an asshole that treats you like shit, fine im in to position to tell people what to do. If your gonna bitch and moan to people and then tell them theyre advice is wrong when they're trying to help you then just save it cuz your wasting valuable post whoring time.

[ScoobyGT]

Originally posted by MustangSarahGT
hahahaahahah we def. need to chill I need more girlfriends

as in girls as friends not girlfriends u nasty leghumpers u:worship2:

Hey Sar- If you need someone to talk to, hang out, ANYTHING, ANYTIME- I'm around. I don't want to post my number up here, but feel free to IM or drop a PM. I've been through all of this and believe me, nothing that people say here is going to change your mind-it's something YOU have to do when you're ready.. being alone is the very last thing you should be doing. Hope to hear from ya :)

[Grey Poupon]

Originally posted by SpeedyCeli
Hey Sar- If you need someone to talk to, hang out, ANYTHING, ANYTIME- I'm around. I don't want to post my number up here, but feel free to IM(Noons2001) or drop a PM. I've been through all of this and believe me, nothing that people say here is going to change your mind-it's something YOU have to do when you're ready.. being alone is the very last thing you should be doing. Hope to hear from ya :)

I'm alone and lonely too. So what are you wearing?

-N

[ScoobyGT]

Awww ;) A bikini made out of Grey Poupon caps :D

[Chuckblvd]

Now thats somthing I want to see.

[ScoobyGT]

Originally posted by Chuckblvd
Now thats somthing I want to see.

I def. doubt that highly :)

[540Malibu]

if there were only that many bottles of grey poupon............

[Chuckblvd]

Whoa guy. Ya your were its nice and cold and Im 1500mi away in the sun at the beach.:P :drunk:

[ScoobyGT]

So when am I coming down to lounge on the beach? :D

[Chuckblvd]

Most of these guys are comming down in the spring your more then welcome to come to.

[ScoobyGT]

Sounds like a plan to me :thumbsup:

[Grey Poupon]

Originally posted by SpeedyCeli
Awww ;) A bikini made out of Grey Poupon caps :D

That's odd...that's what I'm wearing too!

Only difference is that mine isn't held on by string. I also like to wear wool sweaters with the nipple holes cut out, but that's just me.

So are you hot or not? We already know that Spence looks like a cross betwee Brad Pitt and a retarded monkey.

[ScoobyGT]

Nabbs- I'm gonna :poke: you until you behave!!

[KELLEE]

Originally posted by MustangSarahGT
I LOVE YOU BRIAN CHARLES LINDBERG with all my heart:( :( :( :( :hurl: